Wednesday, July 1, 2009

This Comment...

REALLY PISSED ME OFF!!!!

Anonymous said...
If it had that much of an impact on you then maybe you shouldn't have been so hard on him....from reading through your blog I can pretty much tell the story....And in Marriage it is for better or for worse and if you knew anything about alcoholism you would understand that it is like a cancer and that you can't hate someone with cancer...and from reading your day to day I think you need to take a LONG HARD DEEP LOOK at yourself and recognize that you potentially have a problem as well!!! Good luck


Dear Anonymous,



Seriously??? I shouldn't have been so hard on him? Where did you get the impression that I was hard on him? Actually it was the opposite... I probably wasn't hard enough on him and the reason being is because I DO understand that Alcoholism is a disease that he had no control over. That being said I didn't ask anything of him cuz I knew even a simple request such as emptying the dishwasher was more than he could handle.

You use the word HATE...I'm here to tell you that I don't HATE anyone...Him included. I have had people shit on me and let me down throughout the course of my life and maybe I have chosen to disassociate myself from those people...But I don't HATE them.


I agree...Marriage is for BETTER or WORSE. And all you can do is hope that the BETTER outweighs the WORSE! But what happens when it becomes for WORSE or WORSE...And then it gets WORSE???

As far as taking a look at myself... I did about a year ago.

I woke up one morning and weighed 98 lbs and I realized I did have a problem. The problem was that I was in an unhappy marriage and I had stopped taking care of me. I realized at that point that I couldn't fix my husband but I COULD fix myself.

So Anonymous Smarty Pants you really can't tell the story from reading my blog...Cuz as far as I'm concerned you don't know JACK SHIT about me or my life.

And as much as your comment rattled my nerves...

I don't hate you.

LL&L



32 comments:

Fancy Schmancy said...

You tell 'em, sweetie. I f'ing hate trolls. What an awful thing to say to you. Only You could have known what the best thing to do for you and your relationship. F what anybody else thinks, especially someone who doesn't even know you and doesn't leave their name.

kat said...

How dare someone judge you when they have NO idea of the hell you have gone through in the past 3 years. F* EM! Dear whoever the hell you are: this woman should be anointed into sainthood for the shit she put up with. If you disagree I hope your significant other leaves another persons dirty underware where you can find them. Why don't you lose this blog address and go somewhere that you might be welcome, like a chicken farm so you can sling that shit for a while....haha...where did I come up with chicken farm

Pharmacist Erin said...

Why do people always gotta be hatin?! And I love how people leave crappy comments under the name "Anonymous." Seriously?! I think mean commenter hates their own life and wants to diss on somebody else.

Always Organizing said...

I hate when people hide behind "anonymous"! Do you think it is your ex commenting?

Anonymous said...

WHAT THE HELL!!!!! I am going to have to kick some ASS!!!
Molly

Life, Love And Lola said...

Kat,

A chicken farm??? Have you been drinking? LMAO!

Newlywed said...

Hmmm... I think Anonymous should stick to only commenting on the topics they are "in the know" about. Otherwise, they just end up sounding like a jackass - then again, if the shoe fits...

Jan @ Struck by Serendipity said...

love the last sentence :)

Life with Kaishon said...

Oh wow. I was popping over from live.love.eat but now I have to go see what is happening. Sometimes I get wierd anonymous comments too. They always baffle me. I came over because I thought your blog name was so cute.

Anonymous said...

Why did you "take the bate"? You don't owe anyone an explanation or comment to a post like that. I think we could figure out who made that post or convinced someone else to post it. Go private again. Not Anonymous-Mom

Anonymous said...

Excuse me I meant "bait"

Shana said...

The dreaded "anonymous" comment.
And the person doesn't know shit from shinolla

LiLu said...

This is, hands down, the BEST response to a troll I've ever read. Well played, my dear, well played. I truly admire you and your strength.

Ronda said...

YOU GO GIRL!!!!
XOXO

Live.Love.Eat said...

Holy crap. That person has the right to say what they feel BUT they should say it with some balls and not hide behind anonymASS!

It just so happens they don't know what they're talking about either but hey...

morewineplease said...

well said dear!

The Mrs. said...

Good for you mama! Tell 'em!

Anonymous said...

RX Pharmacy Online. Get Cheap Medication online. Buy Pills Central.
[url=http://buypillscentral.com/]Discount Viagra, Cialis, Levitra, Tamiflu Pharmacy without prescription[/url]. Indian generic pills. Cheapest medications pharmacy

Anonymous said...

Today it's instead particular to group different medical companies Cheap Discount Cialis Pharmacy Online, unusually those who dispense their meds online.

Anonymous said...

[B]NZBsRus.com[/B]
Escape Idle Downloads With NZB Files You Can Hastily Search HD Movies, Console Games, Music, Software and Download Them at Alarming Speeds

[URL=http://www.nzbsrus.com][B]NZB[/B][/URL]

Anonymous said...
This comment has been removed by a blog administrator.
Anonymous said...

The authoritative point of view, curiously..

Anonymous said...

Making money on the internet is easy in the underground world of [URL=http://www.www.blackhatmoneymaker.com]blackhat link building[/URL], It's not a big surprise if you have no clue about blackhat marketing. Blackhat marketing uses not-so-popular or not-so-known avenues to generate an income online.

Anonymous said...

знакомства для смс общения знакомства в городе дагестане сайты секс знакомства по городу тольятти сайт для знакомства в кбр порно онлайн знакомства видео знакомства- моздок знакомства секс пинск эроклассники волгодонск знакомства знакомства в славгороде знакомства рамблер самарская область

Anonymous said...

Специально для Вас друзья мы возвращаем наш отличный проект на котором можно скачать все с файлобменников бесплатно [url=http://kachaitut.ru/]Софт[/url] . Все для Вас друзья.
Уважаемые Админы приглашаем Вас обменяться ссылками.

С Уважением, Администрация КачайТУТ.

Anonymous said...

top [url=http://www.xgambling.org/]free casino[/url] brake the latest [url=http://www.casinolasvegass.com/]online casino[/url] unshackled no store hand-out at the chief [url=http://www.baywatchcasino.com/]casino online
[/url].

Anonymous said...

У Вас до сих пор нет сайта, хотите заказать хостинг, зарегистрировать дешево домен, нужна качественная расктрутка тогда Вам сюда [url=http://yestech.ru/]разработка сайтов создание сайтов
[/url]

Anonymous said...

[url=http://www.23planet.com]Online casinos[/url], also known as settled casinos or Internet casinos, are online versions of well-known ("wodge and mortar") casinos. Online casinos commandeer gamblers to remind one of up and wager on casino games middle of the Internet.
Online casinos typically control odds and payback percentages that are comparable to land-based casinos. Some online casinos contend higher payback percentages during interest written bargain games, and some issue payout serving audits on their websites. Assuming that the online casino is using an fittingly programmed unexpected take the measure of c estimate a iterate up generator, pr‚cis games like blackjack clothed an established directorship edge. The payout shard as a replacement pro these games are established prior the rules of the game.
Partition online casinos charter out or be actualized their software from companies like Microgaming, Realtime Gaming, Playtech, Worldwide Prank Technology and CryptoLogic Inc.

Anonymous said...

Салон Секреты Красоты предлагает большой выбор классических салонных услуг: парикмахерские услуги, маникюр, педикюр, косметология, перманентный макияж. Мы работаем более 10 лет и придерживаемся принципа соотношения цены и качества обслуживания. Для постоянных клиентов действуют акции и бонусная система. Заходите на наш сайт [url=http://s-krasoti.ru/] эпиляция lycon москва
[/url]

Anonymous said...

http://www.msn.com/ - [url=http://www.msn.com/]msn[/url] msn
msn

Anonymous said...

Хотите Скачать филмы быстро и бесплатно, Вам сюда [url=http://expresskino.ru/]Скачать сериал Запретная школа[/url]

Anonymous said...

Производственная компания «М-СЕТ» специализируется на производстве сварных сеток в рулонах, имеющих широкое применение в различных строительных работах.
Производство сварной сетки выполняется на многоточечных сварных машинах, методом контактно-точечной сварки крестообразных соединений. Все пересечения и стыки прутьев тщательно сварены, благодаря чему конструкция отличается превосходным качеством и является одной из самых прочных.
На нашем сайте Вы можете посмотреть образцы нашей продукции и связаться с нами
[url=http://setka-vlg.ru/]укрепление кирпичной кладки
[/url]