Sunday, January 25, 2009

Trust is VERY IMPORTANT to me...



If you lose my trust, you lose me!

I haven't been ignoring y'all this weekend. I wish I could report that I was off doing something fun. I wasn't. I was on a rescue mission.

I got a call from one of my Best Friends. I could tell from the way she said "Hello" that something was wrong.

She had just learned that her husband of almost twenty years has been having an affair for the last year. So I dropped what I was doing, packed a bag, shipped Lola to her Grandparents and headed her way. Cuz that's what Best Friends do!

I'm angry. I'm sad. I hurt. And she feels the same, just 100 times worse!

There is nothing worse than seeing someone you love in so much pain! I ache for her and I ache for her precious children.

And I'm pissed at this man for doing this to my friend.

9 comments:

Ms. Florida Transplant said...

This is an epidemic! Hopefully she can find peace after awhile.

Robin said...

I hope your friend is able to realize that it wasn't her --- tell her to hold her head up and not to let 'him' get the best of her!

PaperCourt said...

You've always been a great friend. My heart goes out to your hurt friend.

morewineplease said...

You are an awesome friend! She is blessed to have you!

Life in Beverly Hills said...

She's lucky to have you....hope she heals quickly.

Shannie said...

How awful!!!! That's so sad. I'm glad that you were able to be there for her... You're right, that's totally what friends do. XOXOXO to you and to her. I hope she is able to find some strength and happiness again soon. I cannot imagine...

Live.Love.Eat said...

OMG! I am SO sorry!!!!!!!!!! I feel better for her knowing that she has YOU by her side. Tell her to start a blog and get all her feelings out. She might be amazed at how she feels when she lets it all out. Not being cavalier but women who lose children do it all the time and later they say it saved them. Best of luck and wishes to her!!!!!!

Muffy Willowbrook said...

Shit.

Ace C said...

That sucks. What a dick!